“… Absalom would reach out his hand, take hold of him and kiss him. Absalom behaved in this way toward all the Israelites who came to the king asking for justice, and so he stole the hearts of the people of Israel.” (2 Samuel 15:5b,6)
Read 2 Samuel 15:1–16.
A person once came to me and said they appreciated that I did not plot or connive for things — in other words, I played it straight. I was genuine. I received it as a compliment, for this person lived in a corporate world where “the game” was played. That person’s world was about selectively placed influence and cultivated partnerships — saying the “right” thing to the person who wanted to hear it. A far cry from Jesus’ “Let your yes be yes, and your no be no” (Matthew 5:37a). Sadly, this also happens in the church.
In this story, Absalom has mastered the art of conspiracy and is gathering supporters against the king. Seemingly simple things, such as taking an interest in a person’s home location, taking a person’s hand warmly, giving a welcome kiss and promising assistance. Absolom painted himself as one who would do justice for those who perceived they had suffered injustice. He did this consistently over four years, cultivating favour.
Surely Absalom could not do this without his father knowing what was happening — even allowing it to continue. This shows David’s tolerance and love for his son. Perhaps he believed — even hoped — that Absalom had honourable intentions. However, we learn this is not the case as the story of conspiracy and betrayal unfolds.
Perhaps you have been in David’s position. What would you do? How would you act? Would you give such people the benefit of the doubt? Would you be prepared to continue loving them, forgiving them and caring for them?
We have every reason to thank the Lord for continuing to love and care for us despite our conspiracies of sin: When lip service belies our true feelings, when a smile disguises anger, and lies or even silence betray his truth.
Prayer
Father God, we are so thankful that You continue to love us despite our consistent betrayal of You. Please renew and restore us to true and constant faith in You. Amen.
Stay encouraged!
Pastor Mike
