“For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” (Matthew 7:2)
If you’re the one doing the judging, remember this timeless principle: what goes around comes around. Jesus said, “Do not judge … For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you” (vv. 1-2). It’s called the law of reciprocity, and it guarantees you will get back what you give. It’s not a threat; it’s an immutable law, just like the law of gravity. You say, “I’m honest; I just tell it like it is. Besides, that person’s sin needs to be exposed!” It’s not about your honesty or their sin, it’s about God’s Word that forbids judging. You may be right and they may be wrong, but judging puts you in violation of Scripture. Plus it sets you up to be judged.
Question: what if the other person has already repented, confessed their sin, and received God’s forgiveness? Think about it: the worst kind of judging is judging sins God has already forgiven and forgotten (see Isaiah 43:25). When we judge others, we’re looking in the wrong direction. We’re avoiding what we don’t want to see — our own shortcomings. Jesus said, “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?” (Matthew 7:3).
Whatever their “speck” is, it’s God’s business — not yours. Your “plank” is your business! Jesus also said, “They are blessed who show mercy to others, for God will show mercy to them” (Matthew 5:7 NCV). Instead of judging others, start investing in your own “mercy account”. You’ll need it soon enough.
Heavenly Father, help me NOT to judge others and interfere with what only You can and should do. Keep me focused on my life to live in a way that reflects You. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.